Blah… Not that one liner again! My friends groan as I sprout “Everything Happens For A Reason.”

I live by this quote and I swear it makes me happy and calm all the time.

Too many people beat themselves up when they encounter a challenge or problem, thinking it is the end of the world.

When you approach life challenges with this phrase: Everything happens for a reason. Everything starts to make sense and you can smile in the face of troubles.

Truth 1 –

You hit a setback to learn something about yourself or essentially take a big hint from the universe that you are not ready.

So what do you do? Learn all that you can from this situation and implement it into your next session.

That is how I transformed my first event rejection into my successful seminar business. My first seminar event was a massive failure, however I understood my customers better and implemented new changes according to their needs. And I have a thriving 6 figure seminar business now.

Now, look at every failure as one big massive lesson to teach you how to hit your goal. Doesn’t every failure look more pleasant and happy now?

Truth 2 -

There is something bigger and more exciting happening

I remembered when I launched my consultancy business, some months, i didnt hit the sales figure that I wanted. I felt disappointed. However, when my seminar business took off, I was anxious to wean off my consultancy clients to focus on my seminar business. Then, I realized why I was not hitting my figures cos the universe was planning something more exciting in the pipeline, my seminar business!

Truth 3 -

You are simply not ready yet

When you keep facing the same obstacles and issues. It is a big hint that you need to sort something inside of you before you take the big leap. For many years of my life, I always worked on figuring out circumstances and worked doubly hard to achieve hard. Only from last year,  I realized that by sorting out internal issues, I magically attract my goals into my life, WITHOUT any effort.  And as long you do not sort out your issues internally, they will always re-surface and visit you over and over.

Reality check – your external life reflects your internal life. Once you change internally, everything outside changes too. Only when you are ready, results or things that you desire will magically drop on your lap. Trust me on this.

So the next time, something does not go your way, smile and say “Everything happens for a reason”. I am looking forward to something bigger and more exciting coming into my life!

If you agree or disagree with me, drop me a comment and I will be glad to discuss this further. Love and blessings…

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